Specifically, In the context of abuse a pattern is an unchanging regular or habitual occurence of something over a period of time. Here in this blog I would like to present to you a series of patterns(habits) that exists in abusers and victims. In addition to that I would like to present some of the patterns(habits) that are helpful to inculcate in healing our wounds caused by our abusers. On an overall level this blog is a collection of pattens that exist in abusers and victims. NOTE: As time progresses more details about each pattern will be updated in the respective blogpost.